Family vacations can create long-lasting memories
and fun learning experiences for parents and children alike. But traveling
with children can sometimes be a test of preparedness -- and of patience.
Here is a list of suggestions to help make the sometimes daunting task of
preparing for a trip with the kids manageable and fun for the entire family.
BEFORE LEAVING
Create anticipation for the family trip by starting a
countdown calendar with perhaps a photo or illustration of the destination.
Let kids pack their own bags. Decide what type of clothing (preferably loose
and comfortable), but allow them to choose their favorites and to pack a
special toy. In a carry-on bag, pack some hard candies and gum, hand wipes,
tissues, books, paper, markers in a small, tightly sealed plastic bag and
perhaps a surprise toy for each child.
Update immunizations for the entire
family. If traveling abroad, check with public health authorities for
advisable additional vaccines.
AT THE AIRPORT
Allow plenty of time for check-in and also between
connecting flights. Arriving early to board together prevents last minute
delays and confusion, especially with the new security regulations. Be sure
to have a safety plan in case anyone gets separated at the airport. Discuss
where to meet and what to do.
Review screening procedures
with children before entering security checkpoints so they will not be
frightened by the process. Every person, including children and babies, must
undergo screening at security checkpoints. Also, all child-related equipment
must go through the X-ray machine. To speed the process along, remove
children from their strollers/infant carriers and collapse/fold the
equipment so it may be examined or put through the machine. When going
through metal detectors, with an infant, have one parent hold the baby and
walk through the machine. Do not hand off the baby under the detector, or
hand the baby to the screener to hold. Children who can walk should go
through the metal detector independently. For older children, it is
important to stress that the process should be taken seriously and that
threats made even as a joke could result in law enforcement being summoned.
ON THE FLIGHT
Bring a child/infant seat on board that meets current
safety standards and is not more than 16 inches wide. The Federal Aviation
Administration recommends that children weighing less than 40 pounds be
placed in child/infant seats.
The best coach seats
to have when flying with small children are the first row in
economy class. There's a lot of legroom, and you'll be removed from most of
the plane when the kids get cranky from the long flight. If the front row
seats are not available, place children away from the aisle, preferably
between responsible adults. Also, remember to get up, stretch and walk
around with kids often during the flight, but do not allow children to walk
around unsupervised.
Getting your seat assignment
in advance can help ensure families are seated together and that children
and adults will be seated next to each other. If a flight is full and
obtaining seat assignments in advance is not a possibility, advise the
airline personnel at the airport. The airline may need to ask other
passengers to change seats so children are not seated apart from parents.
Bring bottled water
to drink and lotion to apply to skin to rehydrate during the dry flight;
gum, pacifiers and bottles to reduce air pressure on the children's ears;
and a variety of toys in carry-on bags to keep the child's interest from
waning. (You can purchase bottled water and beverages after you go
through airport security.)
IF TRAVELING BY CAR
Make it comfortable by bringing pillows and blankets. Stop
frequently at rest stops to stretch and make use of restrooms. Play games
like "I Spy.” Make sure the car is stocked with paper, pencils, plenty of
engaging toys and tapes or CDs of their favorite songs or books. Most
importantly, keep children involved in the vacation process. Save everything
collected on vacation - brochures, napkins, ticket stubs - and have children
paste them into a scrapbook.
Plan ahead with the
rental company to make sure they offer car seats and installation.
If not, you'll have to bring your own in addition to a collapsible stroller.
If nothing else, a simple call to the rental car company may save you the
hassle of bringing along one extra piece of equipment.
ONCE THERE
Have a daily schedule planned with some flexible, free time
for each family member. Provide friends or relatives with phone numbers and
addresses of hotels where the family will stay, transportation information
and emergency contact information. If possible, each member of the family
should have a cell phone or walkie-talkie to keep in touch at all times.
Coming up with an emergency plan or meeting point is also a good idea in
case family members become separated.
AT THE HOTEL
Put safety first by avoiding a myriad of possible
accidents. Bring outlet protectors and make a sweep of balconies and
bathrooms for any potential dangers. Hide away small objects, accessible
medications and cleaners children could get their hands on. Familiarize
yourself with the hotel’s fire and emergency evacuation routes and
procedures.
SOME EXTRA PRECAUTIONS
If your vacation includes a trip to a pool, ocean, water park or any other
place involving water, the number one rule is to never let children venture
off alone. Even if they know how to swim, children should wear a life jacket
at all times. Also, it is important to know what is in the water, such as
chemicals or jellyfish. Very cold temperatures, currents, and sudden
drop-offs are all things to avoid, especially with children.
Always bring a hat with a wide
brim and sunscreen of at least 30 SPF to shield children’s skin from the
sun's harmful rays. Sun poisoning can ruin any vacation.
It is important to bring along
needed medications. Diarrhea treatments (although these should not be given
to very young children), pain relievers, insect repellants, antihistamines
and adhesive bandages are good staples. Consult your doctor about “over the
counter” remedies before using them. Bringing a doctor's number, even if
traveling to a foreign country, is a good idea, as well.
To prevent diseases spread by
drinking contaminated water, use only bottled or boiled water to mix formula
and juices, or simply go with pre-mixed liquid formula whenever possible, if
an infant is not being nursed.
MOST IMPORTANTLY...
Maintain a good sense of humor while traveling to give your children a
vacation to remember in spite of any unforeseen obstacles. Remember that
problems do arise and accidents do happen, but being prepared and keeping
our travel tips in mind may help avoid hassles and undue stress. |
